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One in the saddle, one on the ground
It feels extremely odd and almost wrong to be calm and satisfied, but that’s how I found myself this afternoon. I’d just put in a…
When I’m not buried in work or delighting in visiting Tarma every night, there’s an ongoing struggle I keep going back to. We’re still healing…

I’m always a bit too slow (read: distractible) to do proper year end round ups, and I’ve been dragging my feet more so than usual…

I’m a few days late in posting this, as it’s been an extraordinarily rough week at the tail end of a dumpster fire year. Cyrus…

First off, Fuck 2020. Can’t say it any more forcefully than that. I’m writing this from my friend’s house where I’m temporarily boarding my new…
I thought the post I wrote after Flash died so unexpectedly was the hardest one I would write this year. Fuck that, said 2020. Today…

This post is pretty heavy, so if you’re in a fragile space yourself right now, I do recommend skipping it. Here’s some pretty pictures to…
I’ve been quietly conducting a new partner search while juggling as much overtime at work as I can, so all thanks to the organizational abilities…

Flash hasn’t even been gone a month and already my stress levels are spiking and my coping mechanisms have stagnated. I didn’t quite realize how…
As much as I miss Flash for himself and how excellent he was, I also miss the certainty he provided, the every day rhythm. Kid,…

Thank you to everyone’s thoughts and kind words, I can’t express how much they help. Even though I cry when I read them, it truly…
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